Especially with this lifestyle, ladies. It can be extremely exhausting and there may be times when you feel like you need to compromise yourself to stay in the game, but you don’t.
Get enough sleep. Don’t starve yourself. Be conscious of what you put into your body. Don’t compromise your beliefs. Keep toxic people out of your life. Stop and smell the roses - enjoy the world around you. Take time to yourself. Discard the negative. Find inner peace.
I cannot stress this enough, you MUST take care of yourself…
If you’re “too lazy” to do your research and read up on the plethora of information, advice, tips, etc. you can find here online, you honestly don’t have what it takes to be a sugar baby.
I’ll probably get a bit of criticism for making this post, but I think it’s important that it’s said…
This is my “Tough Love” post:
It’s for the ones who undoubtly have done NO research of their own.
When girls expect me to spoon feed them absolutely everything about sugaring, without making a conscious effort on their end, I just can’t. I would be doing them a complete disservice.
If a fellow SB isn’t willing to help themselves by putting in a little effort and doing some research, why should I help them?
I’m not making this post to sound condescending, but I value my time. I help a ton of other SB’s and answer dozens of asks privately, so I am in no way trying to bash new SB.
I’m rooting for everyone here in the Sugar Bowl, but honestly, this lifestyle isn’t for everyone.
I don’t mean to put anyone down, but we’ve become a generation of coddlers, where everyone gets a gold star and trophy simply for participating. "You can be anything you want to be…" NO, you can’t! I will NEVER be an astronaut, or professional basketball player. That’s a fact, so this whole, “Believe it, and you can be it” concept gets taken too far sometimes.
You need to be realistic with yourself. If you’re too lazy to help yourself and do research, STOP.
Stop, take a step back, and help yourself first.
Stop lowering your standards and settling for less than you deserve.
Know your self-worth!