musingsofasexworker

sweetsugarandspikes:

1. You will be constipated. Like, a lot.
2. You won’t be able to lift your arms much. It will hurt a lot.
2. You will have to stop drinking for like 3 weeks surrounding your surgery
3. God forbid you’re on your period because it will hurt to even out a tampon in.
4. It will hurt to shower
5….

Most of the constipation is due to all the pain killers, ask for a stool softener like Colace to prevent that problem.

OR if you’re currently constipated, drink hot/warm prune juice! It works wonders, hahaha

Your emotional, physical, mental, & spiritual well-being are so incredibly IMPORTANT.

Especially with this lifestyle, ladies. It can be extremely exhausting and there may be times when you feel like you need to compromise yourself to stay in the game, but you don’t.

Get enough sleep. Don’t starve yourself. Be conscious of what you put into your body. Don’t compromise your beliefs. Keep toxic people out of your life. Stop and smell the roses - enjoy the world around you. Take time to yourself. Discard the negative. Find inner peace. 

I cannot stress this enough, you MUST take care of yourself…

💋, Kimmy

My ex-SD, “My, aren’t you an expensive dinner date!

So besides the $1k deposit and $1k cash, he ended up spending an additional $4,000 on me…

  • $2k in hotel expenses for some much needed R&R
  • $1k in Neiman Marcus gift cards 
    (I bought myself Saint Laurent Classic Tribute 105 sandals)
  • $1k in travel expenses so I can go home in a couple weeks

I absolutely LOVE staying in beautiful hotels. Amazingly comfortable beds, perfect pillows, room service, wonderful views of the City, magnificent bathtubs, gorgeous interior, etc.

At this point though, I’m not sure what I’m going to do with my ex-SD… 

💋, Kimmy

itsskybitches

itsskybitches:

trustfundsugar:

#Boss

sugarnursekimmy give yourself a high five!

LOL!

I’m sitting at a Mandarin Oriental bar giggling to myself! Hahaha

My biggest “TIP” for you would be to do your research and read through the different sugar tags here on tumblr…

If you’re “too lazy” to do your research and read up on the plethora of information, advice, tips, etc. you can find here online, you honestly don’t have what it takes to be a sugar baby. 

I’ll probably get a bit of criticism for making this post, but I think it’s important that it’s said…

This is my “Tough Love” post:
It’s for the ones who undoubtly have done NO research of their own.

When girls expect me to spoon feed them absolutely everything about sugaring, without making a conscious effort on their end, I just can’t. I would be doing them a complete disservice.

  • It dramatically reduces their desire to put in any of their own effort.
    These ladies will never find themselves (AND maintain) a successful SB/SD relationship without putting in any effort. 
  • A lack of effort can create a lack of appreciation, and devalue the advice they’re receiving. 

If a fellow SB isn’t willing to help themselves by putting in a little effort and doing some research, why should I help them? 

I’m not making this post to sound condescending, but I value my time. I help a ton of other SB’s and answer dozens of asks privately, so I am in no way trying to bash new SB. 

  • It’s like if you were tutoring a kid to help them with school. If they didn’t read any of the material assigned to them and just asked you for all the answers, would you do all their homework for them? No, you’d tell them to do their reading and come back to you if they still have questions. Same concept!

I’m rooting for everyone here in the Sugar Bowl, but honestly, this lifestyle isn’t for everyone.
I don’t mean to put anyone down, but we’ve become a generation of coddlers, where everyone gets a gold star and trophy simply for participating. "You can be anything you want to be…" NO, you can’t! I will NEVER be an astronaut, or professional basketball player.  That’s a fact, so this whole, “Believe it, and you can be it” concept gets taken too far sometimes. 

You need to be realistic with yourself. If you’re too lazy to help yourself and do research, STOP. 

Stop, take a step back, and help yourself first.

💋, Kimmy

spoonfulofsweetsugar

spoonfulofsweetsugar:

So thanks to Miss Travel (recently joined) I’ve gotten 4 different wealthy men inviting me for a weekend in NYC! I freaking ADORE NYC no matter how many times I go, but the thing is, I’m trying to build a relationship with someone I can see regularly during the school year…

You have to ask yourself, what was the reason you started sugaring in the first place? What are your goals?

  • Are your goals in the sugar bowl for the experience, to be spoiled with luxury? Exotic travels, a nice car, designer accessories, clothing, and jewelry? (<—- if so, NYC sounds good)
  • Were you looking for something more financial? Tuition payments, school loans, credit card debt, rent, bills, etc. (<—- if yes, I suggest finding someone local & more substantial than weekend getaways)
  • Did you want mentorship to help you with your career goals, and networking? Or for guidance and financing, so you can start your own business?
  • Or were you ultimately looking for a rich husband? To marry a wealthy man and be his trophy wife, and have someone take care of you for the rest of your life.

Not that you can’t find an SD that meets all of that, but what are your sugar goals?

I know that a lot of ladies on here will argue that because it’s summer, you should be traveling. But the summer is a really great time to form stronger bonds with POTs & your SD, they’ll be more willing to be flexible and understanding when you’re slammed with school/work when Fall rolls around the corner. 

It’s also the difference between instant gratification vs. delayed gratification. Investing a little more time and energy into a sugar relationship can really be worth it in the long run; verses, the instant gratification of flying off to NYC for the weekend and having a mere couple hundred dollars and some photos. 

*side note* If you do decide to travel, ask for at LEAST $1,000! Personally, I’d be looking $2K+ for a weekend 

Safe Travels ! :)

PS - Being a successful sugar baby isn’t just about snagging POTs and SD’s short-term, it’s about sustaining a mutually beneficial relationship.

swedishsugar
There have reoccurring questions about my physical appearance:
Petite - 5’ tall
XS, 00-1 (24-25), 32B
No cosmetic surgery/fillers
I don’t work out - I maintain my weight through diet
My weight fluctuates, but on average I’m about 100 lbs/45 kg
The only hair styling tool I use is my Chi Flat Iron
Thank you all so much for the kind words &amp; being so wonderfully supportive!! XOXO

There have reoccurring questions about my physical appearance:

  • Petite - 5’ tall
  • XS, 00-1 (24-25), 32B
  • No cosmetic surgery/fillers
  • I don’t work out - I maintain my weight through diet
  • My weight fluctuates, but on average I’m about 100 lbs/45 kg
  • The only hair styling tool I use is my Chi Flat Iron

Thank you all so much for the kind words & being so wonderfully supportive!! XOXO

I initially left because:
• I had absolutely nothing to prove.
• I didn’t need any of the drama.
• & people were threatening harm against me. 

But I’M BACK for mainly one reason only, because this culture that has developed here on Tumblr of harassing people until they leave, needs to STOP. I pray to God, that the threats against me were false and petty girls were just running their mouths because they have nothing better to do with their time. 

The photos I posted are pretty self-explanatory, but for those of you who may not be so smart,  
1) Screen shot of a “juicy” pay period [two weeks].  
2-3) 
An obligatory Money Shot of “pocket money.”  
4-5) I stay at beautiful hotels, with OR without an SD because that’s my style! Tonight, champagne & room paid for by a wonderful man I hold near & dear, whom I’ve actually NEVER met before! But yet he transfers $$$ into my account for things like nice hotels, or necessities, such as helping me fix my car… being genuine and personable gets you a long way ladies ;)
6) SURPRISE! Here I am, 100% real! …I’m not some ugly troll fabricating fairytales! :) I’m a physically attractive female with beautiful hair and sultry lips! XOXO

I’ve come to the conclusion that I really have nothing to hide, so if I get outed by a vile, vindictive person, not the end of the world. Everyone at work knows about Boca, my family is slowly being introduced to details about him, and it’s a genuine relationship. When my SD and I were together, it was completely platonic, so people can’t say shit to me. So if my biggest fault was having slept with a married man in the past (Frenchie), then I can take the heat for that.  I’ve met everyone organically, not spamming SD sites, so I have a clear conscience!! 

I was laying low for the longest time, but I’m done. After being contacted by so many people, there are a LOT of you I still need to get back to, but I want to be more involved with my followers from here on out! 

So for all of you who were SNK skeptics, HERE YOU ALL ARE, I’m 100% genuine. I work extremely hard and “play” just as hard. I’ll work a double and spend 25 hours at the hospital, or stay for a 16 hour shift, just to come back the next night to work another. I may travel a lot on my days off, but when I’m scheduled, I put in a ton of time at the hospital. I absolutely love my job, can’t imagine doing anything else with my life, so it makes all of the ridiculously long hours worth it. 

I’m a pretty normal person, I just happen to be a little bit more physically attractive than the average female. The fact that I don’t have an over inflated ego, entitlement issues, or rely solely on my physical attributes, is what gets me so far with men. Stay beautiful both INSIDE and OUT ladies! 💗

With all that said, I’m back! ;)

💋, Kimmy 

eyelashanxiety
lanas-doll:

sugarcatlady:

OMG so I literally just have my legs draped over some luggage and some guy approached me and gave me a check for 10k and paid for my meal and pedicure! I must give off serious SB vibes even though I’m in yoga pants with greasy hair and no makeup on! Isn’t that just totally amazing and not subject to skepticism at all?!?!

lol my dinner cost $1800 somehow, here are some stock photos of luxury goods xx

It’s truly PATHETIC that you two have nothing better to do with your time than talk shit.  With all the yapping you fools do, I still find it funny that you don’t have the balls to say anything to me directly, or at least tag me in your shady ass posts. Instead, I end up finding out about your trash talking from other people on Tumblr. You two are exactly why so many of the successful SB’s in the sugar bowl stop posting. Nothing but drama!  Sorry, but not sorry, that you can’t seem to fathom the idea of having a $1,800+ dinner. Also, that you seem to think that any decent, quality pictures of luxury items can only be stock photos.  Your jealousy and insecurities are not becoming.  💋, Kimmy

lanas-doll:

sugarcatlady:

OMG so I literally just have my legs draped over some luggage and some guy approached me and gave me a check for 10k and paid for my meal and pedicure! I must give off serious SB vibes even though I’m in yoga pants with greasy hair and no makeup on! Isn’t that just totally amazing and not subject to skepticism at all?!?!

lol my dinner cost $1800 somehow, here are some stock photos of luxury goods xx


It’s truly PATHETIC that you two have nothing better to do with your time than talk shit.

With all the yapping you fools do, I still find it funny that you don’t have the balls to say anything to me directly, or at least tag me in your shady ass posts. Instead, I end up finding out about your trash talking from other people on Tumblr.

You two are exactly why so many of the successful SB’s in the sugar bowl stop posting. Nothing but drama!

Sorry, but not sorry, that you can’t seem to fathom the idea of having a $1,800+ dinner. Also, that you seem to think that any decent, quality pictures of luxury items can only be stock photos.

Your jealousy and insecurities are not becoming.

💋, Kimmy

bi-coastal-baby

bi-coastal-baby:

hollyruston:

brownsugarsparkles:

drapersdoll:

Does anyone not realize nurses don’t make 100k though

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STOP… educate yourself on matters before you try to bring someone down jealously! shame

I mean, nurses make a very respectable income, and are fantastic for doing the work that they do. Income is going to vary widely by specialization and geographical location…

bi-coastal-baby, she’s referring to me.
& She’s just throwing shade because she’s petty and small-minded.

•••••••••••••••

I make damn good money for a few reasons: 
1) LOCATION 
2) I work in a SPECIALITY unit 
3) I have more than just basic CERTIFICATIONS 
4)
 I receive pay differentials for working nights, overtime, bonus, etc. 
I have coworkers who easily gross 150K/year.

I’m completely blessed to be making great money working at a phenomenal hospital, and that I have a job I’m passionate about and absolutely love. 

I’d say simply stop reading my blog, but I know that you (along with a few others) can’t seem to stop checking up on me

While you waste your time throwing shade and starting drama, I’m going to be off doing my thing!! 👑

💋, Kimmy